Lost in Obscurity … a Couple of Guys and My Blog
In the time I’ve been back on Match.com, I’ve met a few good guys (in addition to the stalker – who is still texting, btw, despite no response from me). Unfortunately, a couple of the good ones have also inexplicably disappeared into thin air … calling and interested one minute … gone the next. In the grand scheme of things, I figure I’m better off without these dating Houdini’s. And I have to say, I’m also doing much, much better at not being had at hello. However, (being the over thinker I am) I tend to wonder what happened to them.
This week it occurred to me that maybe this blog and Google were the reasons. I use my full name on my e-mail and instant messaging (probably not the smartest, but I’ve been too lazy to change it), and as soon as I’m armed with that kind of information, I know I’m off to Google to see what else I can dig up. I figured the Houdinis may have done the same and found these “musings.” While I don’t think I’ve been overly negative or mean (except maybe to the stalker), I could see that a guy could be turned off by the possibility of being the subject of my dating disclosures.
It had been a while since I’d Googled myself (and if you haven’t … you should) so I tried a few minutes ago. Apparently there’s a singer named Amber Morris, but with the addition of “St. Louis,” it’s all me. However … sadly … no Ammusings, at least not in the top 20 results.
But it’s ok, I’ll pick myself up, dust myself off and keep blogging … and dating despite the disappearing acts.